Oct 1, 2025

The Companion Notebook to Restart and Restore: Continuing the Journey of Discovering and Healing

The Companion Notebook to Restart and Restore: Continuing the Journey of Discovering and Healing, Rachel Bernstein

The Companion Notebook to Restart and Restore was created as the partner to the Restart and Restore Journal. While the journal provides a structured path for healing, this companion notebook gives you additional space, inspiration, and guidance to continue your journey. It is designed for the survivors of cults, high-control groups, narcissistic abuse, and coercive relationships who want a safe and supportive place to process, reflect, and heal.

Within its pages are fifteen sections that expand on the themes of the journal, guiding you through grounding yourself, unmasking manipulation, untangling harmful beliefs, reclaiming your inner voice, setting boundaries, honoring grief, healing the body and mind, and rediscovering joy. Each section features a powerful quote from thought leaders such as Gabor Maté, Brené Brown, Gloria Steinem, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Judith Herman, and others. Survivor vignettes bring validation, reminding you that you are not alone. Writing prompts invite you to reflect deeply, uncover strengths, and take steady steps toward rebuilding confidence.

This notebook is compact and portable so you can carry it with you and write whenever you feel ready. It is a helpful companion for anyone using the Restart and Restore Journal, and it also stands on its own as a healing tool for survivors, counselors, and supporters in the recovery process.

Restart and Restore: A Journal for Survivors of Manipulation

Restart and Restore: A Journal for Survivors of Manipulation, Rachel Bernstein

Healing after manipulation or coercion can feel like stepping into overwhelming territory. You may wonder: Where do I even begin?

That’s why I created Restart and Restore: A Journal for Survivors of Manipulation. It’s a supportive companion to your healing, filled with gentle prompts, reflections, and guidance to help you begin again, at your own pace and in your own way.

This journal, both in hardcover and paperback, provides a framework to guide your journey, but you are welcome to adapt it, modify it, and make it your own.


To walk alongside the journal, I’ve also created The Companion Notebook to Restart and Restore: Continuing the Journey of Discovering and Healing.

Think of it as an open space where you can expand on your reflections, capture your personal insights, and return to exercises that resonate most with you. While the Journal offers structure and direction, the Companion Notebook offers quotes and short stories from others who have walked this path and it offers additional room for expression, making these two powerful partners in your healing journey.