Showing posts with label R. Kelly. Show all posts
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Oct 18, 2021

CultNEWS101 Articles: 10/18/2021 (Colonia Dignidad, Chile, Documentary, NXIVM, LuLaRoe, R. Kelly, LDS, Podcast, ICSA, Call For Papers)

Colonia Dignidad, Chile, Documentary, NXIVM, LuLaRoe, R. Kelly, LDS, Podcast, ICSA, Call For Papers

"A Sinister Sect: Colonia Dignidad is a true-crime documentary series that was released on Netflix on October 1, 2021. The series is based on the isolated colony established in Chile lead by German fugitive Paul Schäfer during the military dictatorship of Augusto Pinochet in Chile in the 1970s."
"After escaping and blowing the whistle on NXIVM, married couple Sarah Edmondson and Anthony "Nippy" Ames are channeling their lessons learned into the Acast podcast, A Little Bit Culty, which explores abuses of power and cult-like practices through conversations with people who have experienced it firsthand. Ahead of its return with season 2, ET has an exclusive preview of the all-new episodes, which includes guests, like former LuLaRoe retailer Roberta Blevins, who shared her story in the Amazon docuseries LuLaRich; Stolen author Elizabeth Gilpin and more.  

When it comes to speaking to Blevins, Edmondson reveals the two shared a laugh over their similar experiences. 'You know, the patterns are so obvious now. Like, even just the similarities between the sociopathic behavior of both of our respective leaders and the names of the different ranks that you have to climb," she says, adding they were able to "find the humor in this dark content.'

"It all started with a pair of leggings. 

"LuLaRich," the limited docuseries on Amazon Prime, shines a terrifying and borderline satirical light on the world of multi-level marketing and pyramid schemes. It exposes LuLaRoe, a massive clothing retailer that mysteriously amassed over $3 billion in profits in 2016, just one year after the company was founded. 

The four-part series follows LuLaRoe co-founders Deanna Brady and her husband Mark Stidham, and it features exclusive interviews from several former LuLaRoe consultants who lost everything by falling prey to the enticing promises of getting rich quickly. 

LuLaRoe's legality and existence are muddy in the eyes of the law, as the retailer is classified as a "multi-level marketing company," which are currently legal in all 50 states. 

Bryan Hochstein, an assistant professor of marketing at The University of Alabama, said that being a multi-level marketing company isn't always a bad thing."

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The Committee will consider proposals on the theme of the conference as well as other aspects of the cult phenomenon, including victims' perspectives, psychological and social manipulation, coercive control, religious fanaticism, terrorism, law enforcement, treatment, prevention, and legal, social, and public policy aspects of manipulation and victimization.


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Sep 17, 2021

​R. Kelly's Former Employees Testify About His Rules

 


BBC
September 15, 2021

A claim of a hostile work environment and strict rules for R. Kelly's girlfriends were topics of discussion at his trial on Tuesday.

Aug 16, 2021

R. Kelly Is Going On Trial For His "Sex Cult" This Week. Here's What You Need To Know.

R. Kelly appears during a hearing at the Leighton Criminal Courthouse in Chicago in September 2019.
The disgraced R&B singer heads back into the courtroom on Wednesday on the most sweeping and serious charges he has yet faced.

Julia Reinstein
BuzzFeed News Reporter
August 16, 2021

For over two decades, R. Kelly has been dogged by unsettling allegations and criticism. There was his marriage to 15-year-old Aaliyah. The video widely believed to show him having sex with and urinating on a minor. The child pornography charges that were dropped. The numerous other allegations of sexual misconduct that were quietly settled.

But Kelly’s luck may finally be running out, as the disgraced R&B singer heads back into the courtroom on Wednesday on the most sweeping and serious charges he has yet faced.

Federal prosecutors in Brooklyn have accused Kelly of being the ringleader behind a criminal “enterprise” that exploited his fame in order to sexually abuse numerous victims, many of whom were underage. He’s been indicted on charges of sex trafficking and racketeering.

According to the indictment, Kelly, with the aid of his staff and entourage, recruited victims for the express purpose of sexually abusing them, isolating them from their loved ones, and dictating their every move. Often, they were young fans, found at Kelly’s own concerts.

“To say that this entire 30-year, 100-million-album–selling career was a criminal enterprise is just really interesting,” said music journalist Jim DeRogatis, who has covered Kelly for decades.

Kelly has been incarcerated in Chicago since July 2019 over another federal sex crimes case he is still facing and was transferred to a Brooklyn jail ahead of his trial there.

How We Got Here


The trial comes four years after BuzzFeed News first published a DeRogatis investigation that revealed that parents had told police that the singer was allegedly holding their daughters against their will in a “sex cult” — accusations that were further explored in the 2019 docuseries Surviving R. Kelly.

“It was as if she was brainwashed. [She] looked like a prisoner — it was horrible,” one mother told BuzzFeed News in 2017. “I hugged her and hugged her. But she just kept saying she’s in love and [Kelly] is the one who cares for her.”

This is far from Kelly’s first brush with the law over sex crime charges. Since the late 1990s, he has been indicted numerous times, most famously in 2008 for child pornography charges after he was seen in a 2002 video that allegedly showed him having sex with and urinating on a 14-year-old girl. The victim and her family did not testify during the trial, and Kelly was found not guilty due to a lack of sufficient evidence.

DeRogatis told BuzzFeed News last week that he believes the successful prosecution of the NXIVM cult leaders — who were convicted of charges similar to the ones Kelly now faces — helped lay the groundwork for this case, as did the investigation into Jeffrey Epstein and his alleged associates. “The feds kind of figured out how to do it,” he said.

DeRogatis has been reporting on R. Kelly’s pattern of alleged sexual abuse since November 2000, when the then-music journalist for the Chicago Sun-Times got an anonymous fax: “Robert’s problem is young girls,” it read.

Just over a year later, in February 2002, DeRogatis broke the story about the urination tape.

Nearly two decades have passed since then. As the unprecedented trial approaches, DeRogatis said that some of Kelly’s accusers with whom he has stayed in touch have expressed to him the complicated feelings it has stirred up. “It’s too little, too late — they can’t get back those years they lost and the damages they suffered,” DeRogatis said.

The Allegations


The allegations put forth by federal prosecutors closely match DeRogatis’s 2017 reporting for BuzzFeed News. After meeting them at his concerts, Kelly would allegedly exchange contact info with his victims so that travel arrangements could be made for them to visit him.

During these visits, the women and girls were allegedly forced to follow a number of “rules”: They couldn’t leave their room without Kelly’s permission, even for food or the bathroom. They had to hide their bodies under baggy clothing when not accompanying Kelly to an event. They were to refer to Kelly as “Daddy.” They were forbidden from “look[ing] at other men and instead were told to keep their heads down.” They were also isolated from their families and friends and made financially dependent on Kelly.

As part of the charges of sex trafficking and racketeering, Kelly is also accused of kidnapping, forced labor, producing child pornography, and knowingly infecting some victims with an STD.

The Victims


Prosecutors are alleging abuse against 22 anonymous victims — 20 “Janes Does” and two “John Does.” The New York Times previously reported Jane Doe #1 is Aaliyah, the late singer whom Kelly was long rumored to have married when she was just 15 and he was 27.

Kelly “engage[d] in sexually explicit conduct” with the teenager “for the purpose of producing one or more visual depictions of such conduct,” the indictment states.

According to a letter from federal prosecutors, a witness is expected to testify that Kelly first had sexual contact with Aaliyah when she was just 13, and that the marriage took place because he had gotten her pregnant. (She subsequently died in a 2001 plane crash, aged 22.)

Not all of these alleged victims have charges expressly associated with them. Several were added to the case after the indictment was first released in July 2019, and prosecutors are utilizing their allegations as further evidence of a pattern of behavior by Kelly.

Kelly’s lawyers fought back against these additions, particularly those of two underage boys, arguing it would be unfair because the questionnaire given to potential jurors was “void of a single question about their opinions or feelings on same-sex relationships.”

As a result, the jury pool was asked during the selection process whether they had any feelings about same-sex sexual relations that could compromise their impartiality.

The Jury


Kelly appeared in court during the jury selection process last week, from Aug. 9 to Aug. 11.

During this process, potential jurors were questioned by Judge Ann M. Donnelly about their experiences and views that could potentially affect their ability to be impartial — including their thoughts on the #MeToo movement and whether they or a loved one have ever been sexually abused or been accused of sexual abuse. Prosecutors and Kelly’s defense attorneys could then ask the court to dismiss potential jurors based on their answers.

One woman was dismissed from the jury pool after saying that as a child she experienced something similar to what Kelly is accused of; another who said she believes false rape accusations are exceptionally rare — a statistically proven fact — was also dismissed.

Twelve people — seven men and five women — wound up being selected to serve on the jury. One of the men chosen said he had a friend in Bill Cosby’s family, but denied it would affect his impartiality.

How the Trial Will Proceed


Kelly’s trial will begin on Wednesday and is expected to go on for about four weeks.

What will happen during this trial remains, for now, largely unknown. Prosecutors have not yet said who will be called as witnesses, though a lawyer for the girl from the infamous tape, now in her 30s, could potentially be among them, according to the New York Times.

DeRogatis said he’s expecting to be surprised by who takes the stand — he said he only knows who 10 of the Jane Does are and does not know if any of them will testify.

But DeRogatis said he thinks Kelly will be convicted of some, if not all, of the charges — and that’s even before he’ll face another federal trial in Chicago.

“I think he’s done,” DeRogatis said. “I don’t think he ever breathes fresh air again.”

Julia Reinstein is a reporter for BuzzFeed News and is based in New York.

Aug 9, 2021

Jury Selection for R. Kelly's Sex Trafficking Trial Begins—and They're the Only Public Members Allowed in Courtroom

R. Kelly arrives at the Circuit Court of Cook County, Domestic Relations Division on March 6, 2019.
Tonja Renée Stidhum
Yahoo!Life
August 9, 2021

R. Kelly arrives at the Circuit Court of Cook County, Domestic Relations Division on March 6, 2019.




Following a few delays due to COVID-19 protocols, Robert “R.” Kelly is facing the music and his trial is inching closer and closer. So close, in fact, that we’re at the jury selection process.

On Monday, 12 jurors and six alternates will be selected for federal court in Brooklyn, N.Y., where Kelly faces several racketeering and sex trafficking charges. Kelly, who has denied all charges, could possibly serve decades in prison if convicted.

According to CNN, the selected jurors will be the only public members to be allowed in the courtroom. Though this is a very high-profile case, other public members or even members of the media will be unable to watch the trial in person. U.S. District Judge Ann Donnelly confirmed that non-jury members will be able to view the trial via video feed in a separate “overflow” room, but may not be able to see the actual evidence as it’s presented.

In a recent explainer of the upcoming trial, the Chicago Tribune provided context to the significance of Kelly’s charges:

Legal experts said charging Kelly under the racketeering statute—commonly referred to by the acronym RICO—is likely uncharted territory for the 1970 law, which was originally designed to go after mafia bosses who shielded themselves by using underlings to do their dirty work.

“Here, R. Kelly is the Godfather,” said Jeff Grell, a professor at the University of Minnesota Law School and an expert in RICO law. “The enterprise is the managers, the bodyguards and runners who do his bidding.”

What makes the racketeering charge such a powerful weapon against Kelly, legal experts said, is that prosecutors can give jurors a 30,000-foot view of the singer’s alleged criminal behavior, both in terms of longevity and the number of victims involved.

“It’s an effective tool for prosecutors because it allows them to bring in evidence they might not otherwise be able to bring in, to give jurors a much broader look at the playing field,” said Jeffrey Cramer, a former federal prosecutor who is now senior managing director of the Chicago-based security firm Guidepost Solutions.


Evidence (which goes back 30 years) presented by the prosecution is rather dense, including misconduct allegations involving 19 women (seven of whom were minors at the time) and the alleged sexual abuse of a 17-year-old boy, as well as overall support to claims that Kelly led an enterprise filled with co-conspirators to recruit girls for his alleged “sex cult.” Further, Kelly’s 2008 case in Illinois—for which he was acquitted—could be reintroduced in this current trial as prosecutors allege that the R&B artist attempted to influence a juror in his favor during that previous trial.

Kelly recently appeared in court at a pre-trial hearing on Tuesday, where the judge ruled that prosecutors will be allowed to present evidence to support the claim that Kelly had “sexual contact” with a then-13-year-old Aaliyah prior to the pair’s marriage in 1994. Trial is set to officially begin with opening arguments on Aug. 18.

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/jury-selection-r-kellys-sex-170000008.html

Jun 5, 2019

How The Story Of R. Kelly’s “Sex Cult” Finally Went Public ― And Quickly Exploded

R. Kelly
I spent almost 20 years reporting on R. Kelly, and nine months trying to find an outlet to publish the story of the "sex cult" that would ― finally ― get the world's attention. (An excerpt from Soulless: The Case Against R. Kelly.)

Jim DeRogatis
BuzzFeed Contributor
June 5, 2019

The day before Thanksgiving, 2000, in response to a review I'd written as pop music critic at the Chicago Sun-Times about R. Kelly's then-current album "TP-2.Com," I received a fax. "Robert's problem," the anonymous correspondent wrote, "is young girls." The accusation had long been whispered on the local music scene, even before gossips said he married his 15-year-old protégé Aaliyah in 1994, and I initially tossed the letter in the slush pile of hate mail and press releases on the corner of my desk, eventually destined for the trash. But it gnawed at me through the long holiday weekend ― the letter had too many names, dates, and details to be mere rumor ― and on Monday, I began looking into the charges with the paper's legal affairs correspondent, Abdon Pallasch. After six weeks of grinding 14-hour days, we published the first story about the man I believe is the worst abuser in the history of popular music, which is saying something, given the art form's long and ignoble history of male stars mistreating women.

For 16 years, I never stopped reporting, taking the calls and emails from victims who said Kelly had never stopped hurting young women, even after he was acquitted on charges of making child pornography in 2008. On November 2, 2016, when I received an email from a mother in Georgia, I didn't sleep on it. At first, the story that Jonjelyn or "J." and her husband Tim Savage told me about their daughter Joy was hard to believe: Kelly was now effectively leading a sex cult, in total control of the lives of six young women in the Atlanta suburb of Johns Creek, they said. A second set of parents, Angelo and Alice Clary, soon told me the same story about their daughter Azriel, and I confirmed the information from these parents by talking to ten more sources, all of them on the record, and many providing extensive corroborating documentation.

Despite the evidence I compiled, the story about Kelly's cult proved more difficult to publish than any in my career, and that period provides a case study of the troubled state of journalism circa 2017. I worked at length with three news organizations, all of which provided additional reporting help, and I got far down the line with editing, fact-checking, and legal vetting at each before executives above the level of the editors I worked with decided not to publish. Desperate to bring their daughters Joy and Azriel home, the Savages and the Clarys contacted me several times a week throughout that long wait. They started to give up hope that the media would amplify their frustrated pleas for help. At times, so did I.

I spent a month doing my initial reporting after J. Savage first emailed me. Then I contacted Jessica Hopper, who'd interviewed me about R. Kelly's troubled history for the Village Voice. She had become executive editor at MTV News, and on December 6, 2016, she agreed to publish the story once we finished it. The broadcast channel had long since replaced music videos with reality-TV trash such as The Real World and 16 and Pregnant, but one of its rotating corporate regimes had decided to create a forum for long-form cultural journalism and criticism online. Eventually, Hopper hit roadblocks with the corporate overlords at Viacom Media Networks. They wanted to break the story in a half-hour documentary, and the legal department balked at indemnifying a freelance reporter.

"Every part of it had hit a snag that I wasn't positive I could untangle," Hopper later told me. "That's when I said, 'Go ahead and walk with it.' I felt horrible." She left MTV four months later.

Editor Jake Malooley had been asking me to contribute to the Chicago Reader, and his deputy Robin Amer had been a colleague at WBEZ. The alt-weekly had recently published a long investigative story about sexual harassment at the vaunted Profiles Theatre, shaking the Chicago theater scene. The Reader was owned at the time by Michael Ferro, a digital entrepreneur with a short attention span and grandiose visions who'd purchased the Sun-Times in 2011. Publisher and editor in chief Jim Kirk, a veteran of the Chicago Tribune, oversaw both papers, and the Sun-Times had of course published all of the original reporting about Kelly that I did with Pallasch.

I worked on the story with Amer from mid-February 2017 until early May. Maya Dukmasova contributed additional reporting, and the piece was vetted by media attorney who'd checked all of my original work, Damon Dunn. Then Kirk decided not to publish. "We felt at the time the story as turned in needed more sourcing," he later told me. He left the papers a few months later, not long before Ferro bought the Tribune as the controlling owner of a corporation he renamed Tronc, then he sold both the Sun-Times and the Reader. Those deals loomed in the background; my story was controversial, and controversy is bad for corporate dealings. Eventually, Ferro lost control of tronc and the Trib and put those up for sale, too, after sexual harassment allegations surfaced about him in March 2018.

From May through mid-July 2017, I worked with my colleagues at WBEZ to post the cult story on the website that hosted my blog of music news and criticism. Chicago Public Radio has a long, proud tradition of hard-hitting audio journalism ― local stories as well as pieces for This American Life, which originated at the station ― but it had never run a textual story so long, controversial, and complicated. Three editors worked with me through several more drafts, and Dunn vetted the story again. Early on July 11, Michael Lansu, as dogged a reporter as my old pal Pallasch, made the necessary calls seeking comment from Kelly's label, RCA/Sony Music, and his current lawyer, Chicago attorney Linda Mensch. We did not want them to know I was the primary reporter ― yet. Lansu outlined the damning allegations in the piece, set to post at noon on July 12. Executives at RCA/Sony Music declined to comment, but Mensch gave us a statement.

We can only wonder why folks would persist in defaming a great artist who loves his fans, works 24/7, and takes care of all of the people in his life. He works hard to become the best person and artist he can be. It is interesting that stories and tales debunked many years ago turn up when his goal is to stop the violence; put down the guns; and embrace peace and love. I suppose that is the price of fame. Like all of us, Mr. Kelly deserves a personal life. Please respect that.

Ultimately, Chicago Public Radio CEO Goli Sheikholeslami, whom I respect and admire, decided not to publish the story on WBEZ.org. "My recollection is we needed more time to further fact-check the story," she later told me, "but we were sensitive to your desire to publish swiftly based on concerns that you'd be scooped when some of your exclusive sources held a press conference. At that point, we mutually agreed that you would approach other media outlets with the piece. Once BuzzFeed agreed to work on the story, we were all glad it was able to get in front of a national audience."

Frustrated, as I was, with the difficulties of publishing the story after nine months of reporting, the Savages planned to call every news organization in Atlanta and camp out in front of the guest house in Johns Creek where Kelly kept the girls if that's what it took to get people to pay attention to their efforts to bring Joy home. I did not care about getting scooped. My immediate problem that Wednesday afternoon was that the Kelly camp knew what the story contained and that it would be published soon (I hoped). I worried that Joy and Azriel or their parents could face retaliation. I made two calls to editors I knew at the Chicago Tribune and the Los Angeles Times, both of whom said their papers could not move quickly with the piece, if at all.

I did not care about getting scooped...I worried that Joy and Azriel or their parents could face retaliation.

I generally avoided BuzzFeed's home page, but BuzzFeed News had been doing some of the most impressive journalism of the Trump era. Editor Shani Hilton and I had never talked, but I appreciated a story she and Aylin Zafar posted on the site in 2013 under the headline "R. Kelly's Alleged Sexual Assaults and Why No One's Talking About It." We connected Thursday morning, and BuzzFeed News wanted the story. I worked nonstop on final fact-checking and editing for the next four days with a brilliant editor, Marisa Carroll, and the same legal team that had worked on the site's blockbuster story about Christopher Steele's Trump-Russia dossier in January 2017. The story finally posted under the headline "Inside the Pied Piper of R&B's 'Cult'" at 7:02 a.m. on Monday, July 17.

As always, there is context. "Call it the Gawker effect," Washington Post media columnist Margaret Sullivan wrote a week after my story posted.

British journalist and digital entrepreneur Nick Denton had launched Gawker in 2002 as "the source for daily Manhattan media news and gossip," and he built a new-media empire as famous for its snark as its scoops. The company crashed in mid-2016 after a $140 million judgment in a suit brought by wrestler Hulk Hogan (real name Terry Bollea) when Gawker posted video of him having sex with a woman married to his friend Todd Clem, a radio host known as Bubba the Love Sponge. Silicon Valley billionaire Peter Thiel, a major donor to the campaign of a new president who'd bragged that his celebrity allowed him to "grab them by the pussy," bankrolled Hogan's legal action, allegedly aggrieved because one of Gawker's sister sites had mentioned his homosexuality. Absent malice in intentionally publishing a story a news organization knows to be untrue, American law makes it very difficult to libel public figures, but the new verdict from the federal court in Florida set a precedent that even household names can successfully sue for "an unreasonable invasion of privacy," a nebulous and dangerous new standard.

"Plenty of people were disgusted by Gawker's airing of the Hulk Hogan sex tape," Sullivan wrote in the Post, "and, as a result, not unhappy to see the site go out of business. But some of them would be less pleased to know that a story like the R. Kelly reporting ― or many others that we don't know about ― might never see the light of day. [Fear] can result in self-censorship at any stage of a story's development, maybe before it ever gets out of a reporter's notebook, or in the hour before planned publication."

My first BuzzFeed story did not name Joy Savage or Azriel Clary, because we considered them victims of sexual abuse, and it did not name their parents, because naming them would identify their daughters. Numerous sources confirmed the identities of the four other women who until recently had been living with Kelly, but we did not name them, either. We described the other members of the cult only as a 19-year-old model; a 31-year-old "den mother" who "trained" newcomers on Kelly's rules and how he liked to be pleasured sexually; a 25-year-old woman who had been part of the singer's circle for seven years ― Dominique Gardner would later go public ― and an Atlanta songwriter, a woman whom Kelly's personal assistant Cheryl Mack had represented and introduced to the star.

Later the day the story published, Tim and J. Savage spoke to the media outside one of the two homes Kelly rented in Johns Creek. Asante McGee joined them; she had been named in the story, along with Kitti Jones and Mack. (It was the first time McGee and Jones told their stories.) Angelo and Alice Clary did not go public until several months later.

BuzzFeed charted more than six hundred "media pick-ups," online and in print, and I did more than 40 print and broadcast interviews in the first week after publication.

In stark contrast to the first Kelly story that Pallasch and I published in the dead-tree Sun-Times in December 2000 ― a dramatically different era ― the cult story instantly spread far and wide thanks to social media. BuzzFeed charted more than six hundred "media pick-ups," online and in print, and I did more than 40 print and broadcast interviews in the first week after publication. I kept talking because I wanted people to care about Joy and Azriel.

As I prepared to go live with Canadian public broadcasting from a studio at WBEZ two days after the story ran, my phone rang. My stepfather, Harry Reynolds, had been struggling with Alzheimer's in a specialized care facility. He died shortly before the scheduled start of my interview with CBC Radio. I thought about canceling it and all the others scheduled for the next two days, but I'd made Harry's arrangements in advance. My brother called our mom, and my wife and daughter sat with her until I finally got there that evening.

My stepdad had spent the last 30 years of his career working with students just a little younger than Joy and Azriel in the public schools of some of the poorest neighborhoods in Jersey City. He had been the kind of teacher who'd take off his tie and give it to a boy to wear to the science fair, and who'd pass his lunch to a girl who didn't have one. The pain Kelly had caused so many girls for so long had grabbed the spotlight. I thought that talking about it was exactly what Harry would have wanted me to do, and I hoped I did him proud.

I also kept reporting. Six weeks later, BuzzFeed News published my story about Jerhonda Pace, née Johnson, a teenager Kelly met during his trial, and seduced a short time later at his mansion in Olympia Fields. (She is one of four victims in the ten-count indictment for sexual assault announced by the state of Illinois in February 2019.) In the spring of 2018, Lizzette Martinez spoke publicly to me for the first time about her underage relationship with Kelly and the miscarriage she endured alone in a Chicago hotel room when she was a teenager. That story also quoted Chicagoan Michelle Kramer; she said her daughter had been part of Kelly's cult since she and her best friend, Jerhonda, partied at Kelly's mansion in 2009. We did not name Kramer's daughter Dominique Gardner, but her mother later did. "Being silent is not the answer, so I said, 'It's time,'" Kramer told me. "I want my child home. I don't know what hold he has on her, but her last words to me was, 'Don't ever give up on me.'"

Although they often felt isolated and ignored, activists had never given up on protesting Kelly's predatory behavior. Launched two weeks after the BuzzFeed "cult" story in the summer of 2017 by Kenyette Tisha Barnes and Oronike Odeleye, a new crusade called #MuteRKelly succeeded in forcing the cancellation of eleven of his concerts over its first fifteen months. Their goal was to stop Kelly from hurting women by shutting down the income that had enabled him, stopping his ability to record or perform. In May 2018, Time's Up, the movement formed by Hollywood celebrities to fight sexual harassment in the wake of allegations about Harvey Weinstein, joined Barnes and Odeleye to release a strongly worded statement supported by, among others, directors Ava DuVernay and Shonda Rhimes, musicians John Legend and Questlove, and Tarana Burke, who had founded #MeToo in 2006.

"As women of color within Time's Up, we recognize that we have a responsibility to help right this wrong," the women in the organization wrote, and they demanded action by industry enablers such as RCA/Sony Music, Live Nation/Ticketmaster, Spotify, and Apple Music. They also called for criminal investigations.

"Kelly's music is a part of American and African-American culture that should never ― and will never ― be silenced," Kelly's camp fired back. No one working for the star put their name to the statement; his latest spokeswoman, Trevian Kutti, had recently resigned. "Since America was born, black men and women have been lynched for having sex or for being accused of it. We will vigorously resist this attempted public lynching of a black man who has made extraordinary contributions to our culture."

A new crusade called #MuteRKelly succeeded in forcing the cancellation of eleven of his concerts over its first fifteen months.

Some close to Kelly whispered to reporters that the girls he housed were runaways eager to escape difficult home lives, and the singer simply took pity on them. Those who left and spoke out against him were either jealous or looking for a payoff. I'd heard these arguments on occasion since late 2000, and it was impossible to believe that so many women had been lying about so many things for so much time. Kelly's critics certainly didn't buy that.

"It's going to take the black community to fully embrace the idea of R. Kelly being a predator, and to understand that even if the girls are now 21 or 18, it's still predatory behavior and that he shouldn't be celebrated in our community," Tarana Burke told me for another piece I wrote for BuzzFeed News in the spring of 2018. The problem, Barnes added, is that people "don't give a damn about black girls," the majority of Kelly's alleged victims. "The bottom line is that R. Kelly ... is the greatest example of a predator in that he went after the most vulnerable that no one cares about."

By the end of 2018, the FBI and local law enforcement agencies in suburban Atlanta, Chicago, Olympia Fields, and Polk County, Florida, still hadn't acted, despite hours of interviews with the parents and others in my stories, and seven complaints the Savages, the Clarys, and Jerhonda had filed against Kelly since 2016. Joy Savage released two videos through the Kelly camp's favorite pipeline, TMZ, claiming she was fine. In the second, Dominique Gardner appeared at her side. Dominique would not go public about her nine years in what everyone now calls "the cult" until March 2019, the same time Azriel Clary first spoke publicly in an interview with Gayle King on CBS This Morning.

After the first BuzzFeed News story, I received many inquiries about working with proposed documentaries; all of them wanted to be the next Making a Murderer or The Jinx. The producers of Lifetime's Surviving R. Kelly, Bunim/Murray, pursued me the most aggressively, but I declined for two reasons. BuzzFeed wanted to make a film, and given the support the organization had shown me, I didn't want to work with anyone else at the time. Bunim/Murray also were the schlockmeisters behind The Real Worldand Keeping Up with the Kardashians, and I saw the blurring of reality and entertainment and the pursuit of celebrity über alles as part of the cultural disease that enabled Kelly. dream hampton was not yet connected with the project, and I had no confidence Bunim/Murray would do journalism, not sensationalism.

In the end, dream and her team contributed something enormously important with Surviving R. Kelly, which ran during the first week of a new year, 2019, and which broke viewership records for Lifetime. For nearly two decades, I had talked with women who told me how Kelly had abused them, and I'd interviewed most of the people who appeared in the series (including the former Kelly assistant shown in silhouette with an altered voice, one of two who held that position after Cheryl Mack). Thanks to dream, for six hours, viewers saw and heard these women speaking directly to them, and it made a difference.

When I was writing the first Sun-Times story in December 2000, the recent issue of Vibe magazine with dream's cover story about Kelly sat on my desk. About two months earlier, she'd spent several days in Chicago with the singer, waiting in and around the recording studio for him to grant her an interview. Talking to Jessica Goldstein of ThinkProgress in 2019, dream said she hadn't thought about the ages of the young women she saw hovering around Kelly until a month or two later, when the first Sun-Times story came out. "Not only did I immediately realize, 'Wow, I missed the whole story,' it's like being at Jeffrey Dahmer's house and being like, 'Fuck, I should've opened this fridge.'" In early 2019, more people than ever finally opened the door. 

Adapted excerpt from the new book Soulless: The Case Against R. Kelly (Abrams Press) by Jim DeRogatis, available now; © 2019 Jim DeRogatis.

Jim DeRogatis is an associate professor of instruction at Columbia College Chicago and the host, with Greg Kot, of the nationally syndicated public radio show Sound Opinions. The author of Let It Blurt: The Life and Times of Lester Bangs and other books, he spent 15 years as the pop music critic at the Chicago Sun-Times. He lives in Chicago.

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Jul 25, 2018

R. Kelly Addresses Sex Cult Allegations, Spotify Ban on 19-Minute Song 'I Admit'

R. Kelly addresses the "sex cult" allegations, the Spotify playlist ban and his dire financial situation in a new song titled "I Admit."  RMV/REX/Shutterstock
R. Kelly
“They brainwashed, really? / Kidnapped, really? / Can’t eat, really? / Real talk, that sounds silly,” singer says of sex cult allegations

DANIEL KREPS

Rolling Stone
July 23, 2018


R. Kelly addresses the “sex cult” allegations, the Spotify playlist ban, his illiteracy and his dire financial situation in a confessional 19-minute track titled “I Admit.”

“Now the truth in this message is I’m a broke-ass legend / The only reason I stay on tour is ’cause I gotta pay my rent,” Kelly sings. “I never thought it would come to this, to be the most disrespected artist / So I had to write a song about it / Because they always take my words and twist it / Believe me, it’s hard to admit all this.”

Over the course of the nearly 20-minute track, Kelly openly discusses many of the accusations he’s faced in the past few years, including the allegations made by several women that the singer is operating what’s been described as a “sex cult.”

“I admit I am not perfect / I never said I was perfect / Say I’m abusing these women / What the fuck, that’s some absurd shit,” Kelly sings of the allegations. “They brainwashed, really? / Kidnapped, really? / Can’t eat, really? / Real talk, that sounds silly.”

Kelly then sings directly to the parents of women he’s accused of harboring, “Don’t push your daughter in my face / And tell me that it’s okay / Because your agenda is to get paid / And get mad when it don’t go your way.”

He later adds, “What’s the definition of a cult? / What’s the definition of a sex slave? / Go to dictionary, look it up, let me know, I’ll be here waiting / Now I admit I got some girls who love me, they pull they hair / Now I admit they love me talk dirty when I pull they hair / Some like me to spank them, some like to give brain / And what some of these girls want is too much for a radio station.”

In the aftermath of the growing number of accusations against Kelly, Spotify removed the singer’s work from their popular featured playlists, which Kelly takes issue with. “Spotify, took me off they playlist / I admit that I been underrated,” Kelly sings. “I’m not convicted, not arrested, but dragged my name in the dirt / All this work to be successful and you’re bending me because of what you heard.” (They later backtracked on the plan.)

Elsewhere on “I Admit,” Kelly sings about some of the things he’s personally endured that he had previously revealed in his memoir such as his functional illiteracy and the habitual molestation by a female relative. “I admit a family member touched me / From a child to the age of 14,” Kelly sings.

As for his inability to read, the result of dyslexia, Kelly says he was unable to read his contracts as a young artist and therefore doesn’t own the publishing on his own songs.

“I admit I’m at rock bottom / And this shit has rocked my mind / I’m calling on my hood / Come walk by my side / They don’t want me to shine,” Kelly adds. “Women’s groups, my god / Now don’t get it twisted, I do support them, but why they wanna bring down my art?”

“Now what I don’t know what else to say except I’m falsely accused,” Kelly sings. “Tell me, how can you judge me when you’ve never walked in my shoes?”



https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/r-kelly-addresses-sex-cult-allegations-spotify-ban-on-19-minute-song-i-admit-702419/

May 7, 2018

Allison Mack's role in NXIVM latest in long line of sordid, celebrity-linked sex cult stories

Alexander John
Independent Recorder
May 7, 2018

Allison Mack faces 15 years to life in prison

“Smallville” star Allison Mack faces 15 years to life in prison If she is convicted for conspiracy to commit forced labor and sex trafficking. She was released from federal custody on $5 million dollars bail.

The disconnect between “Smallville” actress Allison Mack’s good-girl appearance and her alleged involvement in the depraved, celebrity-linked self-help organization-turned supposed sex cult NXIVM has been jarring.

According to NXIVM’s former publicist, Frank Parlato, Mack came up with the idea of a secret society of women within the organization who would be branded near their groin area.

“She was the principal recruiter of young slaves for [NXVIM leader Keith] Raniere,” Parlato told Fox News. “They nicknamed her Pimp Mack.”
Mack, 35, came face-to-face with Raniere on Friday, for the first time since the pair were charged with sex trafficking.

 
While the headlines surrounding Mack and NXVIM have been shocking, they’re nothing new.  (Reuters)


“Allison Mack recruited women to join what was purported to be a female mentorship group that was, in fact, created and led by Keith Raniere,” U.S. Attorney Richard P. Donoghue said in a statement. “The victims were then exploited, both sexually and for their labor, to the defendants’ benefit.”
And Mack isn’t the only celeb linked to NXIVM. She reportedly married “Battlestar Galactica” actress Nicki Klein at the behest of Rainiere, and Princess Elizabeth of Yugoslavia Catherine Oxenberg’s daughter India, is also a NXIVM member.

While the headlines surrounding Mack and NXIVM have been shocking, they’re nothing new. Hollywood stars have been linked to several cults whose members were accused, and in many cases convicted, of some of the worst crimes imaginable.

R. Kelly sex cult allegations


Several women have accused accused R&B singer R. Kelly of mentally and physically abusing them when they were undearge.
One of them accused him of giving her an STD when she was 19 years old and told The Washington Post she was unlawfully restrained.

 
One woman alleged her daughter is currently being “brainwashed” and is a part of the singer’s “cult.” (Reuters)
One woman alleged her daughter is currently being “brainwashed” and is a part of the singer’s “cult.” (Reuters)

A second one, Kitti Jones, told the BBC that the singer sexually abused her while they dated from 2011 to 2013 beginning when she was 27 and he was 44. She claimed Kelly groomed her and took her to his “sex dungeon” where he forced himself on her. She also claimed Kelly forced her to have sex with him and others.

She claimed she met a girl Kelly allegedly bragged he groomed since she was 14 years old.

Another allegation surfaced this week, when Lizzette Martinez told Buzzfeed she lost her virginity to Kelly in 1995, who knew she was underage at the time.
Meanwhile, a woman who identified herself as Michelle said her 27-year-old daughter “N” [whose real name was not used] got together with Kelly when she was 17. She alleged her daughter is currently being “brainwashed” and is a part of the singer’s “cult.”

The controversial singer was previously arrested in 2003 on child pornography charges. He was acquitted of the charges in 2008.


The Phoenixes, Rose McGowan and the Children of God


Actor Joaquin Phoenix and his siblings, as well as fellow actress Rose McGowan, were all raised in the Children of God, an organization for Christian missionaries that ultimately became controversial for its alleged encouragement of bizarre sexual practices.

Former member Flor Edwards told The New York Post in March the cult programmed its devotees to believe they were destined to a blissful afterlife in the Garden of Eden while the rest of the world perished in hell. Edwards claimed the Children of God practiced incest, sex between adults and children, as well as group sex.


 
Joaquin Phoenix (left) and Rose McGowan were both raised in the Children of God cult. (Reuters)

Joaquin Phoenix (left) and Rose McGowan were both raised in the Children of God cult. (Reuters)

Edwards also said the group practiced “Flirty Fishing,” which encouraged female followers to recruit new members by “show[ing] God’s love” through sex.
In 2011, McGowan told People Magazine she fled at age 9 with her father from the group, who feared she would be sexually abused.

“I remember watching how the [cult’s] men were with the women, and at a very early age I decided I did not want to be like those women,” said McGowan. “They were basically there to serve the men sexually – you were allowed to have more than one wife.

Back in 2001, Joaquin told UK’s Uncut Magazine he didn’t witness any of the group’s alleged sexual practices.

“It might have become a cult, but when we were there it was a really religious community,” he claimed. “It was a time when people were questioning the nuclear family of the ‘50s, people were saying they weren’t satisfied with the upbringing their parents had. Is there another way? My parents were just searching for an alternative way of raising their children.”


The Beach Boys’ Dennis Wilson and the Manson Family


Dennis Wilson of The Beach Boys is said to have been associated with the Manson Family, a group that practiced free love as a commune where women were shared by its leader Charles Manson and its other male members in the 1960s.

However, Wilson was never officially a member and his only connection with the group was a purported friendship with Manson.

Dianne Lake, the group’s youngest member who shared a relationship with Manson when she was just 14 years old, told Fox News in October that Manson viewed the rock singer as someone who could help him spread his influence to the masses.

“Dennis really took Charlie under his wing,” said Lake. “Charlie was teaching Dennis how to play the guitar and I think he admired Charlie. He was proud to show him off to his friends. They had a good time together.”

In July 1968, Wilson scheduled a recording session for his friend. Mike Love, who was in attendance, supposedly wasn’t thrilled with the arrangement. Lake claimed when Manson didn’t get his way, he pulled a knife out. Consequently, the relationship between Manson and Wilson soured.


“They stole one of Charlie’s songs and changed the name,” she claimed. “So he wasn’t happy about that… It just wasn’t the same. I think they tried to mold him into being a rock star and Charlie wasn’t going for it. Because I think Charlie’s message was more important to him than being a rock star. He didn’t want the words to his music changed. He didn’t want to dress differently. He wasn’t happy.”

That same year, The Beatles released “The White Album.” Manson became so obsessed with the recording that he made “the family” listen to it daily. He believed it was an apocalyptic sign of a race war to come, Lake said.

Manson faced another setback in spreading his destructive gospel. In spring 1969, screen star Doris Day’s son Terry Melcher, a record producer who was also friends with Wilson, was curious to hear him sing. Although Melcher arranged Manson to perform at a studio, no record deal came through, Lake revealed.
Several months later, Manson ordered some of his followers to go on a two-day murder spree, which resulted in the deaths of seven people. One of the victims was actress Sharon Tate, who was eight months pregnant with her first child with director Roman Polanski. Her home was previously occupied by Melcher.
Manson died in 2017 at age 83.


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Oct 25, 2017

Surviving R. Kelly

Jones and R. Kelly on the first night they met, in 2011.
Jones and R. Kelly on the first night they met, in 2011.
Kitti Jones left her home and career for a relationship with the R&B idol. That's when she says the abuse began. Now she's speaking out

Jason Newman
Rolling Stone
October 23, 2017

Kitti Jones had been dreaming of this moment for years.

It was June 2011, and R. Kelly had just performed to a frenetic crowd at the Verizon Theatre outside Dallas, Texas. It had been nearly two decades since the singer's raunchy lyrics and honeyed voice turned him into a R&B superstar and sex symbol. But despite multiple controversies over his alleged sexual relationships with underage girls, his still-dedicated fan base sent his latest album – the throwback soul LP Love Letter ­– to Number Six on the Billboard 200.

Love Letter is relatively tame, coming from the man who once sang, "Girl, I got you so wet, it's like a rainforest/Like Jurassic Park, except I'm your sexasaurus." But like most of his shows, the Dallas concert was raucous, with Kelly launching into boisterous call-and-response theatrics and leaving the stage to embrace screaming fans. When he took off his sparkling button-down shirt and revealed a Dallas Mavericks jersey, the place erupted.

Surprisingly, Jones – a popular DJ for Dallas hip-hop and R&B station 97.9 The Beat – wasn't in the audience. She'd been into Kelly since she was a teen in the early 1990s, when she'd hide in her room with his music to escape her mother's tumultuous romantic relationships. She'd buy every magazine he was in and, upon the release of his 1993 solo debut, 12 Play, took a limo to a third-row seat at her first Kelly show. She'd seen him in concert seven times since. "He was my Brad Pitt," she says.

But even though she was disappointed to miss it, bailing on the concert meant something better: she was at Fat Daddy's, a club in suburban Mansfield, Texas, setting up for the Beat-sponsored after-party. She was finally going to meet the man she'd been captivated by for more than 20 years.

Later that night, the guest of honor arrived. Clad in a crisp white shirt, diamond earrings and tan fedora, he hardly looked his 44 years. As Jones made her way upstairs to the VIP section, she approached R. Kelly (real name Robert Kelly). "I said, 'Oh I'm so upset, because this is one of the first concerts I've ever missed,'" Jones tells Rolling Stone. "And he was like, 'Well you've seen one, you've seen them all.'"

Jones says he then invited her to the next stop on the tour, which took her aback. "I'm thinking, 'I know he's not inviting me.' On the inside, I'm freaking out a little bit," Jones says. "Did he really say that? He was everything that I thought. He was handsome. He represented a powerful man. He just owned the room [and had] all the things that make up that 'Oh my God' factor."

As Jones tells it, when Kelly went to shake her hand after small talk, he gave her a piece of paper with his phone number and told her to text him her number. Jones says that after she texted Kelly from the bathroom, he replied, saying to always call him "daddy" ­– never call him Rob.

Worried that any continued interaction that night would look unprofessional, Jones says she decided to take off. "I was just like, 'I'm outta here,' beeline to my car," she recalls. Around 3 a.m., Jones says Kelly called her to ask where she had gone, following up with a text that read simply, "Sin pic."

The night would begin, according to Jones, a two-year relationship with Kelly rife with alleged physical abuse, sexual coercion, emotional manipulation and a slew of draconian rules that dictated nearly every aspect of her life. Those rules, including what and when to eat, how to dress, when to go to the bathroom and how to perform for the singer sexually, were first described in writer Jim DeRogatis' bombshell BuzzFeed feature on Kelly last July.

But the girls that story focused on met Kelly when they were in their teens; Jones was different. She had a career. A car. An ex-husband. A child. She'd been working in radio for more than five years and was used to being around celebrities. And while Kelly denies the allegations to Rolling Stone, over the course of multiple interviews with Jones and others familiar with her situation, what emerges is a detailed account of her relationship with Kelly and a firsthand look at life in the singer's inner circle.

Kelly's alleged manipulation of women dates back to 1994, when the singer, then 27, married 15-year-old R&B singer Aaliyah. In 1996, Kelly was sued for $10 million by aspiring vocalist Tiffany Hawkins, who claimed that she first began having sex with Kelly at age 15 and "suffered personal injuries and severe emotional harm because she had sex with the singer and he encouraged her to participate in group sex with him and other underage girls." (The lawsuit was settled for an undisclosed sum in 1998.) Kelly would eventually settle separate suits brought by two more women who said they'd had sex with him when they were under 18.

In February 2002, DeRogatis, then a reporter and music critic for the Chicago Sun-Times, anonymously received a now-infamous 26-minute video and passed it on to the police. The tape allegedly shows Kelly telling a girl to call him "daddy" and urinating in her mouth. The girl's aunt told the paper that the girl had only been 14. "It's crap, and that's how we're going to treat it," Kelly told a Chicago TV station at the time.

Kelly was indicted four months later on multiple child-pornography charges and faced up to 15 years in prison. After finally going to trial in 2008, Kelly was found not guilty on all 14 counts. (Jurors admitted after the trial that they could not verify the identity of the girl, who did not testify, despite more than a dozen witnesses identifying her on the tape. Consequently, they could not definitively say that she was underage.)

As a radio personality in a still-nascent social-media era, Jones – who first became an on-air DJ in 2006 – was a conduit for listeners to comment on Kelly's legal troubles, including his 2008 acquittal. On air, she says, she tried to remain neutral, but she admits that at the time, she thought the singer may have been set up. She continued to be a devout fan. "I still went to his concerts. We played his music [on the radio]," she says. "I didn't know there were other girls that he had paid off."

Jones says the two began speaking regularly via phone and text for two months after their first meeting, before they met again. "I want you to come and see me in Denver," Jones says Kelly told her. "That's my getaway spot." He would cover the airfare, the hotel room, everything – all she had to do was get on a plane and show up.

"I got there before he did because he of course doesn't like to fly, so he's taking the bus," Jones says. She had sent Kelly "racy photos" while he was en route to the hotel and was excited to reunite face-to-face. As she waited in the hotel room for Kelly to arrive, she heard a knock at the door. "He brushed past me," Jones says. "I'm thinking we're going to hug or peck each other. But he plopped down on the couch and pulled out his penis and started pleasuring himself."

Jones was stunned. Should she leave? Say something? Proceed? If this were a "regular guy working at CVS," says Jones, she would've been furious. But the combination of physical attraction and the two months of courteous courtship just made Jones put the incident "in the back of my head."

"I was attracted to him and was just like, 'Well, OK. Fine,'" she says. "Maybe he just has weird ways of getting off." The two had oral sex that weekend, with Kelly, according to Jones, saying things like, "I gotta teach you how to be with me" and "I gotta train you." "He was like a drill sergeant even when he was pleasuring me," Jones says. "He was telling me how to bend my back or move my leg here. I'm like, 'Why is he directing it like this?' It was very uncomfortable."

"But he tried to make me feel special about [the trip]," Jones adds. "Like, 'If I didn't really like you, I wouldn't have done that, and I wouldn't even be wasting my time flying you out, and I respect you.'" Jones and Kelly continued their romance, with Kelly, according to Jones, sending her flowers and gifts at work. "I had been divorced a couple of years at that point and [I was] meeting some bad guys," Jones says. But Kelly made her feel better. "He's not trying to hurry up and have sex. It was an escape for me." She was single, lonely and her son was living in Europe with her ex-husband. Kelly offered the perfect respite.

It was in September 2011, during Jones' first trip to Chicago to visit Kelly at his Trump Tower apartment, that she began noticing odd incidents. After Jones texted Kelly that the driver arrived at the airport on time, Jones alleges Kelly told her not to speak to him and inform the singer if the driver talked to her. It was part of a pattern, Jones later realized, of male figures in Kelly's orbit avoiding interacting with any woman around the singer. Jones recalls stumbling on a stair that night and watching two male employees nearby not flinch. "They knew not to talk to me or help or anything," she says.

Despite the red flags, Jones was starting to fall for Kelly. She says as the singer began to confide in her more about past traumatic events like the deaths of his mother and childhood girlfriend, she began feeling protective of him. If people knew who he really was, thought Jones, they'd be more sympathetic. "Rob kinda makes you feel like you have to defend him," she says. "It's like you and him against the world. If someone brought him up [in conversation], immediately a wall went up."

In November 2011, Jones quit her DJ job, sold her car and moved into the singer's Chicago apartment. "She asked me what I thought about her quitting her job and moving," says Veda Loca, a DJ for The Beat who worked with Jones at the time. "I was like, 'You only live once.' I mean, fuck, it's R. Kelly."

"Soooo enough mushy talk I have a flight out at 2p my new journey has begun!!" Jones tweeted at the time. "By this time, I'm falling in love with the guy," she says now. A few days after Jones moved in, Kelly would release "Shut Up," his first song following throat surgery in July, which doubled as a rebuke to his detractors. "Even before the doctors was done and I could awake/A tsunami of rumors had come to wipe my career away," Kelly sings. "But to everybody that be callin' me, tellin' me what they be sayin' about me/Bringin' me all of this negative shit, y'all the ones I ain't fuckin' with."

According to Jones, Kelly claimed that he would pay her double her salary if she moved to Chicago, but also cautioned her on his close relationship with women. "He said, 'I have friends and I have girls I've raised,'" Jones recalls. "I didn't know what he meant by 'raised' at the time. He said, 'I eventually want you to meet them, but I want to make sure you're mentally ready for that.'"

To Jones, theirs was a mature relationship – and in the beginning, she was under the impression that Kelly was monogamous. "As long as you don't see it or find anything suspicious, you just assume you're the only one until it's right in your face," she says.

Almost instantly upon moving to Chicago, Jones says, Kelly began governing nearly every detail of her life, starting with the requirement that she wear baggy sweatpants whenever she went out and text near-constant updates on her whereabouts. (A source who knew Kelly confirmed the singer's demands on Jones to Rolling Stone.) Jones says she was forced to text either the singer or one of his employees for even the slightest request. (Sample text message: "Daddy, I need to go to the restroom.")

Unlike on earlier weekend visits, Jones says she now had to "stand up and greet daddy" every time he walked in the room. Jones could still travel back to Dallas to see her friends, but was tethered to her phone to supply continuous updates to the singer.

Jones had been living with Kelly for less than a month when she claims the first instance of physical abuse occurred, in November 2011. Jones says that on a return trip to Dallas around Thanksgiving, she saw the video at the heart of his child-pornography trial for the first time and challenged Kelly on the phone about it. "He said, 'Bitch, don't you ever fucking accuse me of something like that,'" Jones says. "He never had spoken to me like that before."

Jones claims Kelly remained enraged when she flew back and met him at the airport. "My heart was just beating through my chest," she says. "He just turned into a monster. I blamed myself 'cause I was like, 'Maybe I shouldn't've said anything.'" As they drove home, Jones says she repeatedly apologized while Kelly kicked her multiple times and delivered a series of open-handed slaps to her face. "I was putting my hand over my face and telling him I was sorry," Jones says. "He would start kicking me, telling me I was a stupid bitch [and] don't ever get in his business." The next day, Jones says, the couple went shopping and neither spoke about the incident.

Shortly after the alleged abuse, Jones considered leaving Kelly but began to think "about how ashamed I was of leaving my career." She was concerned about both exposing the man she loved and having "too much explaining to do." "I didn't want to damage him any further than what people already thought," she says. Jones claims in the first year she lived with Kelly, the singer physically abused her approximately 10 times, with the frequency increasing the following year.

Kelly's career hardly diminished despite his legal troubles. In June 2012, he released Write Me Back, his 11th studio album, which debuted at Number Five. He announced his Single Ladies Tour two months later.

Kelly took Jones on the two-month, cross-country trek, marking a relatively calm period in their relationship. "The abuse was heavy before the tour," she says. "Then when the tour came, he treated me like a princess. I just thought, 'Why would I walk away from this?'"

Each show was a barrage of sexually charged imagery. Kelly would sing about having sex to his own music, don a white leather jacket with the word "SINGLE" adorned in miniature LED lights, judge a mock-stripping contest from a gold-and-white throne and let fans grab his crotch while singing. In St. Louis, he caused two women to fight over a towel he asked them to use to wipe his sweaty face. "I get horny off my own shit sometimes," he told the crowd at one show. "He's eager to shock, confuse and impress in equal parts," Rolling Stone wrote of his Chicago stop. "At times, his show resembles audible pornography."

He even included a live skit involving Jones – one that would have been absurdist, raunchy humor under normal circumstances. In retrospect, the bit takes on a more sinister meaning. After Kelly brings Jones onstage, two men dressed in white lab coats make her sign a waiver and chain her arms inside a white cage. Kelly enters as a white sheet is draped over the cage, obscuring the couple. The cage begins rocking as the band's music intensifies, with Jones and Kelly eventually shown silhouetted. After Kelly simulates oral sex on Jones, the two re-emerge, and a mock-fatigued Jones is led offstage. "'I've never paraded around anybody before,'" Jones says Kelly told her before the tour started. "'I'm gonna make sure people see us together.'"

"People started recognizing it was me on YouTube [and] thought I was living this glamorous, 'I have a butler'-type of life," Jones says. Kelly was particularly excited for his Dallas show, says Jones, to "rub it in the faces" of Jones' former colleagues at The Beat.

Though she still had to text him continuously, she was given more freedom on tour. "He'll have a car service and then take me to the hotel and be like, 'Get room service … Go shopping, spend whatever you want,"' Jones says. "I think he knew leading up to the tour that I was just over it. He knew that I was holding all these secrets that I had learned being in the inner circle and that I could probably be the one to nail him. So him taking me on that tour was like, 'Let me make sure I treat this one a certain way.'"

Near the end of the tour, one day after Thanksgiving 2012, Kelly released the third installment of Trapped in the Closet, his bizarre, wildly popular R&B opera. The night before, according to Jones, he and nearly 20 associates enjoyed a holiday feast in New York without her. "I starved on Thanksgiving because the room service [at the hotel] was closed and he made me think he was coming back to get me at 11 o'clock," she says. "He just hopped back in the bed the next day like it was nothing."

R. Kelly + Kitti Jones - Cage Skit

In January 2013, Kelly moved Jones from Trump Tower to his nearby recording studio, which also contained several rooms for living quarters. Jones didn't think anything of it at the time – Kelly was moving personal possessions over to the studio, too – but says that someone close to Kelly has since told her the move was to accommodate another of Kelly's girlfriends. "When I moved some of my things out of there, I wasn't thinking, 'Oh, some other girl is moving in,'" Jones says.

Kelly housed Jones alongside two of his other girlfriends, allegedly demanding that each of them contact Kelly or one of his employees before leaving their room. Despite all three girlfriends living in one location, Jones says the singer at first tried to ensure none of them knew the others were living there. There were no locks on the doors, but cameras monitored every move and Kelly would punish the women for attempting to leave for any reason without permission. (The source who knew Kelly independently confirmed Kelly's rules with his girlfriends to Rolling Stone.) Kelly would frequently take away Jones' phone as punishment – sometimes as long as two months – cutting off her ability to request food or perform basic functions, according to Jones and the other source who knew him.

Two months into living at the studio, Jones says, Kelly began using starvation on her as punishment for not following his orders. Jones says the longest she went without food was two and a half days, though single days without a meal were not uncommon. "Will u send a pizza here to studio I'm alone til 4am no card no money just dropped off with my blanket and the guys aren't replying," Jones texted childhood friend LaToya Howard on May 23rd, 2013, at 12:35 a.m. "I feel dizzy." (Loca, who worked with Jones at The Beat, tells Rolling Stone that she noticed Jones' drastic weight loss after Jones broke up with Kelly and said Jones told her she had sometimes not been allowed to eat.)

Per Kelly's rules, say multiple sources, any sharing of personal info – your hobbies, where you worked, your favorite food – with another woman was not allowed. (The girlfriends all had nicknames, with Jones claiming that none of them knew the others' real names upon meeting.) "We are suppose[d] to tell Rob [if] someone breaks a rule [or tries] to be negative with each other," Jones texted Howard on March 16th, 2013.

"If you disclose your relationship with him [to another woman] – how long you've known him or whatever – you can get beat," Jones claims. "He doesn't want in any way for one girl to feel more like, 'Oh, we're closer than you guys.' Even though we knew deep down we're all living there, we didn't address it."

Any woman living in the studio, she says, was obligated to look down when walking down the hallway or toward the bathroom to avoid looking at other men. "When I was on tour, it was just clear [that] people knew not to be in my path," Jones says. "I don't know what he would think would happen if you're looking at somebody. I think he's looking at it like that's letting a guy know it's OK to speak to you."

"She started sending me text messages like, if there were guys around, she could not look at any of [them]," Howard says. "She had to always have her head down or if they were in a conference room and she was sitting next to Rob, he would have her turn facing him and she had to keep her head down the whole time. If a male would say something funny, she couldn't laugh."

One musician who opened for R. Kelly during this time also noticed Jones' guardedness. "Probably the first week of the tour … we tried to speak to [Kitti] and she just kept walking," he tells Rolling Stone. "He had control over her. She was scared to even have a conversation with anyone else. The last show, she walked up to us and hugged us but you could tell she was looking over her shoulder to make sure nobody was looking."

Todd Muhammad, a longtime friend of Kelly's who has written and produced for the singer, denies that Kelly acted abusively toward women but admits that the singer made it a point to separate his male acquaintances from his girlfriends. "He's very, very private," Muhammad says. "I've never known him to have [a girlfriend] that would have a relationship – even a friendship – with any of his boys. ... He definitely keeps them separated."

Jones says that in March 2013, she was introduced to another one of Kelly's girlfriends. The singer brought the woman in naked and told her to crawl toward Jones and perform oral sex on her. "He told me, 'I raised her. I've trained this bitch. This is my pet,'" she says.

That night would begin a new, darker chapter of Jones' relationship with Kelly, one in which she claims he would force her to have sex with other women. Kelly would frequently fly girls in for sex, says Jones, and order her and his other girlfriends to hook up with them. "You can't say no because you're going to get punished," she says. "You just become numb to what's happening. It's so traumatic the things that he makes you do to other people and to him."

"He videotapes everything that he does, and sometimes he'll just make you watch what he's done to other girls or girls that he had be together," she adds. "He would masturbate to that and then have you give him oral sex while he's watching what he did with somebody else on his iPad."

In one particularly graphic example, Jones claims she witnessed Kelly urinating on two women while she and the women were in the middle of a sex act with the singer. "It was just a game for him," she says. "He just went back and forth [on them] when he was peeing and told [another girlfriend] to clean it up afterwards. That was the worst that I've ever seen."

Jones claims her coerced sexual encounters with women became more frequent as time went on. "Ninety-nine percent of the time, I didn't want to do it and I would tell him I didn't want to do it," Jones claims, adding that she once vomited after performing oral sex on another one of Kelly's girlfriends. "It was the most horrible thing. People look at it and go, 'Oh, you're grown.' No. You have to actually be there to know exactly what it felt like for a person to overpower you and make you feel like there's nothing for you outside of him."

Jones describes this period from March 2013, when she was first forced to have sex with other women, to her departure that September as "six months of hell." She says the punishments – including physical abuse – increased as one of Kelly's other girlfriends fabricated or exaggerated stories to Kelly that made Jones look bad. "I was getting punished for something every week," Jones says. "If I wasn't getting slapped, I wasn't eating or my phone was gone."

Kelly headlined the Pitchfork Music Festival in Chicago alongside Björk and Belle and Sebastian that July, prompting a new wave of criticism led by DeRogatis. "What does it say when an artist who's been accused of hurting numerous young women is celebrated by IFC, the Independent Film Channel [who aired the latest installment of Trapped in the Closet] and music festivals such as Coachella, Bonnaroo and Pitchfork?" DeRogatis wrote at the time.

In August 2013, after one instance where Kelly had taken her phone, Jones was able to secretly reactivate her Facebook account long enough to send a message to Howard asking her to FedEx an activated phone to the recording studio. "She said, 'Can you send me a phone because Rob took the phone away and threw it out the window?'" Howard says. Knowing that Kelly often slept until midafternoon, Jones says she timed a bathroom visit to surreptitiously grab the FedEx package.

The lowest point for Jones came that same month. By then, "his voice scared me, seeing that he called scared me, hearing a door open and close scared me." Feeling "like trash," Jones sat on a couch, contemplated suicide and plotted her next move. "I just said, 'I'm gonna kill myself and it's gonna be his fault,'" she says. "'I can either kill myself or kill him. What use am I when I walk out of here?'"

In September 2013, Jones told Kelly that she wanted to visit Dallas to take her son, now back from Europe, shopping for school supplies. "I was fed up with just everything," she says. "Fuck what people are gonna think. You need to take your ass home."

She left her possessions in Chicago, flew to Dallas with two suitcases and never returned. "She had to be careful as to what she was packing," Howard says. "Nothing that had heels or club clothing. She just had to have her sweats and T-shirts."

Jones says Kelly didn't outwardly express hard feelings when she left for good, as the two spoke occasionally and amicably following her departure. But Jones was suspicious of Kelly's motives. Was he genuinely OK with the breakup, or intentionally conciliatory for fear of Jones publicizing her accusations against the singer?

Two months later, in November 2013, Kelly went to Dallas for a show and met with Jones, ostensibly to return some items she left in Chicago. Jones says he remained amiable before meeting her, inviting her to his tour bus, she thought, to retrieve her possessions.

But when she got on the bus, Jones alleges Kelly assaulted her. "I walked on the bus and I was like, 'Hey daddy!' And I went to go hug him and he was like, 'Bitch, I'm not giving you shit' and he was just attacking me," says Jones. "I knew he wasn't going to kill me, but it was a lot of force. I was thinking, 'I'm not going to call the police.' I just felt so stupid," she says.

"[He was] instilling the fear back in me," Jones says. "When a person sees that you're not calling the police or the press on them ... it's like, 'Let me make my mark so you'll be afraid.' And it worked." It would be the last in-person contact the two would have.

From the end of 2013 until December 2016, Jones tried to rebuild her life, getting a job financing for car loans. (She has since begun getting back to a career in radio.) She had complicated feelings about Kelly. On one hand, she still felt protective over him, reaching out to see how he was doing after a particularly intense video interview with the Huffington Post – one where, after the interviewer posed a series of questions that he saw as "negative," he walked out. "I was like, oh my God, poor thing," she says. Yet on the other hand, she was perpetually dealing with survivors' guilt and the stress of staying quiet for fear of retribution and shame, all while hoping to put her experience in the past and move on. "I suffered in silence. I lived in fear for the last three and a half years," says Jones. "I haven't been living my life. I've just kind of been existing."

When Rolling Stone provided to Kelly a detailed list of allegations Jones made against him, Kelly categorically denied them. "Mr. Kelly is aware of the repeated and now evolving claims of [Ms. Jones]," Kelly's representative wrote in a statement. "It is unfortunate that Ms. Jones, after public statements to the contrary, is now attempting to portray a relationship history with Mr. Kelly as anything other than consensual involvement between two adults. As stated previously, Mr. Kelly does not control the decision-making or force the actions of any other human being, including Ms. Jones, by her own admission. Any claim of wrongdoing of any kind or of mistreatment of any woman by him is false, ill-motived and defamatory."

Last December, Timothy and Jonjelyn Savage, the parents of 22-year-old Joycelyn Savage, who is currently living with Kelly and other women, asked Jones for advice on how to get their daughter to leave the singer, the couple confirm to Rolling Stone. (In a video posted on TMZ, Savage claimed that she is living with Kelly of her own free will.) Jones hadn't been keeping up with Kelly's current girlfriends, but initially tried to help the Savages.

"I cried when she showed me photos of her daughter, and then I called [Joycelyn] 'cause I said, 'Maybe this is my moment to help somebody, 'cause I'm sitting here on this information that can stop [him]…. I felt like I had the power to stop him earlier." Jones says she no longer is in communication with the Savages but the conversations spurred her to consider going public with her story.

"I wouldn't wish those memories on anybody," she says. "I used to think about them and well up with tears, but now I'm so angry about the things that I let him get away with. I feel some sense of responsibility with the girls in the house now. I feel guilty because I was quiet for that long. Now I feel like I have a purpose again because I can talk about this, get it behind me and not be ashamed. Now I'm like, 'Bring it on.' I don't fear him at all."

Jones says she is setting up a nonprofit organization called Stop Protecting Your Abuser. "By me being silent, it allowed him to feel untouchable, that he could keep things going as long as he could pay people off and put enough fear and shame in us that you would never speak on it again," she says. "Staying silent absolutely protects your abuser."

Kelly called Jones in May of this year, the last time Jones says the two have communicated in any capacity. "He said, 'If someone came to you right now and asked them how I treated you, you can't fucking say that I didn't treat you good. ... You had a roof over your head. You went shopping. You didn't have to want for shit. So you can never go around and say that I was a monster like other people say that I am,'" Jones says. "I was so scared when he was talking to me. I was like, 'This guy really thinks he did me a favor.' He doesn't look at the sexual stuff as scarring and damaging people."

Kelly's popularity has remained steadfast. From 1993 to 2013, 13 of the singer's 14 studio albums peaked in the top 5 of the Billboard 200, including six that reached Number One. He has sold more than 35 million albums worldwide, and in 2010, Billboard named him the Number One R&B artist of the past 25 years based on chart performance. Jones says she knows many people "already have [their] minds made up" about the singer, but hopes her story will be a cautionary tale to other women.

Jones says she never signed a non-disclosure agreement, but that Kelly wanted her to sign a document that would safeguard him from legal action. She refused. "Rob is about to force me to sign a letter they typed up stating things I never did just to prevent me from ever suing him," Jones texted Howard on May 16th, 2013. "Please save this text … in case I ever need to prove I was forced. He is saying he needs to feel protected if I leave or if he fired me." Jones' lawyer, Shay M. Lawson, tells Rolling Stone that no legal proceedings against Kelly have been filed, but that Jones "is still very much exploring her legal options."

Asked what she hopes people take away from her experience, Jones speaks in a measured yet defiant tone. "I want them to not be so dismissive towards the women that are speaking out," says Jones. "We're not just rolling over out of bed and saying, 'Hmm, let me just make up a story about R. Kelly today. Let me make it sound similar to something that he's already been accused of and put my own remix to it just [because] I want some attention.' [Anyone who has spoken out] has gotten annihilated in the press [and] from fans.

"And then they judge people by how they look: 'She's too old, he wouldn't go for her, this bitch is lying.' Any little thing to justify what he's doing to people," Jones continues, her voice rising. "It pisses me off that people that really did suffer and go through the things that they did and wanted to kill themselves are still ashamed, in hiding, embarrassed and just afraid overall to speak out. The backlash from it will make you feel like [you wish you'd] never talked about it. And all this has been replaying in my head and I'm like, 'Fuck that. I'm not letting this be me.'"

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